Wednesday, July 29, 2009

I want to cut my hair !?

I am a sikh, have religious parents and famiy this is really hard for me because me and my older sister really want to cut our hair. We cut our hair Secretly and we told my mum and dad and we got a gob full from them and they still don閳ユ獩 trust us going out with friends or going out with each other I sometimes think what is the point of living we can閳ユ獩 talk to my dad he is so scary and my mum is like no you can閳ユ獩 get your hair cut, when you閳ユ獧e married, then she閳ユ獨 like end of subject. Stupid cow I hate them so much all they think about what the family are going to say putting shame to the family I told my mum I don閳ユ獩 really care I do my eyebrows and shave so why can閳ユ獩 I cut my hair! So now I need help on how can I ask tell them both if we can cut are hair? Need ideas how to ask and what to say!



I want to cut my hair !?

wow..that may be a problem, but at the end of the day (if you are an adult) it is up to you. you don't get to control what people think or will say about you, they always will have the pros and the cons...but you can do what makes you happy. ask yourself why you want this hair cut so badly and what you would benefit from it at the end of the day?, ask your parents why they care so much about what the family would say ?(this is not about them, who cares what they think), ask your mum what would it hurt to have your hair cut?, tell her why you want it so badly. (would she not do anything to make u both happy?...yes..then this makes you happy so she chould really consider. there is no crime .



As for trust from parents, you gain it... you just dont get it, and for all my life i can tell you it's very hard to gain but try to be more responsible and maybe they'll give you slack. ask them what they are so afraid of. (as for me my mum hated when i wanted to go out because she was afraid that i would get pregnant, my dad was just afraid of loosing his "little girl". sigh* (no im not little. haha). proove to them that you are both responsible, (and act responsible, actions speak louder than words).



by the way you don't hate them...we never do..we just hate the choices they make, when you get an adult you'll thank them for being so mean, you'll become an amasing woman and as much as you'll hate to admit "it was because of them"..thank god for mean parents. they just want to protect us (they wouldn't feel like they are doing their job if they give us too much slack)



I want to cut my hair !?

cut youre hair and get It ova with, It does grow back yaknow.



I want to cut my hair !?

i would say mom come on i am old enof to cut my hair.. and if she says no just say why? k! i hope i helped!!! =]]



~Makayla~



I want to cut my hair !?

Why fight something you aint going to win? You cant cut your hair so give up and have long hair. Fight for something worth fighting for



I want to cut my hair !?

Don't do it, you will regret it



I want to cut my hair !?

Guess you'll just have 2 get those garden shears out dude, about time ya started 2 use em' anyway!......



I want to cut my hair !?

Sorry, although i am not Sikh, i do understand what u are going thru to an extent. I am Cypriot and was not allowed out or to havea boyfriend (tho i did on the sly) When my mum found out, the sh*t hit the fan but hey she eventually got over it. As for the hair, i thought it was the Sikh men who had to eave their hair long. Just do it! Yr parents cat ground u more than u already are and yr hair will always grow back. Be strong.



I want to cut my hair !?

you need to respect them, tradition and their rules. Go to them, tell them that you respect your heritage and their feelings and you understand that they are upset. But this is something that you want to do and it will not effect the type of person you and your sister are or the family name. Just dont chop the whole thing off though, that would be a too drastic change for them start with a few inches, every so months. good luck.



I want to cut my hair !?

You just explain your parents and cut your hair,,,



I want to cut my hair !?

how old are you? Why don't you just try to make the best out of what you have. Lots of girls want to have long hair. Why don't you try to keep your parents happy for a little longer and mean while just do different styles with your hair, one day make it curly another make a braid, you know do different stuff so you wont get bored. When you are old enough and if you do decide to cut your hair everybody would look at it like an extreme make over.



I want to cut my hair !?

Wait quietly until you are 18 then move out and far away! Then you can do whatever you want!



I want to cut my hair !?

would say mom come on i am old enof to cut my hair.. and if she says no just say why? k! i hope i helped!!! =]]



I want to cut my hair !?

I understand your feelings.



Just hang your hair down and apply fevicol to the lower parts of your hair and let it dry.



Tell them you were working on some artwork and it got spilt- you didn't even notice.



Don't cut your hair. Show them your hair. I'm sure your mom will scold you etc but in the end she'll ask you to chop off that part silently ;)



I'm sure you can try something like that. But just don't let her get an idea that you did it on purpose :)



good luck! :D and let me know how it goes.



I want to cut my hair !?

It's your hair, it's your body. You have the final say, not your parents. they don't have to like it. besides, you are not living your life for your parents are you? you are living your life for you. it's hair and it will always grow back. cut it and get it overwith.



I want to cut my hair !?

First off, do not do any tricks, first it effects you negatively, and second, your parents will probably find out.



Secondly, Not being able to cut your hair is not the end of the world. Wait until you are indipendant and politely petition them occasionally when you are not yet indipendant. A good way to petition is say that the hair keeps the boys away, or difficult to manage with your schedule.



Thirdly, family customs are important, and while you may not appreciate them, you may find more appreciation later. You may regret giving up on the hair.



Remember, getting your hair cut can be done for the rest of your life and is easy. Making up with your mom and dad is not easy and God forbid something happen and you haven't yet made up.



Good luck.



I want to cut my hair !?

I feel your pain, I also have my hair cut and also did my sister, both my parents were not mad at us.

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